Thank you everybody for your advice.
As of this moment, I now have:
Blue Scorchstone
Cloudy Wand of Storms
Leaf Shield
Scarab Ring
Ice Club
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Thief Dagger
My last spot is still a bit undecided, I see alot of you recomended me to use the Snowglobe Staff. From the description I cant quite understand what is so good about the item, it seems that it has a 20% chance of freezing the opponent, and a 20% chance of attacking, and 60% chance of doing nothing that benefits me. Would you not say that the Blue Frost Cannon, or something of that sort would be a better replacement. Sure the % is only 10, but it does do damage as well every time?
As for stats, I know I dont have much, and I am training them, basically I am using the academy 2 or 3 times a day (depending on when I get to go on), and doing as many kitchen quests as I can (I do them if the items add up to less then 4 or 5K) My budget is growing atm, and I should have enough to train for quite a while. I make most of my cash through the WC (If I have a whole hour to devote, I can almost always get at least 1 map piece between 10K and 25K), and getting my pet to a relitively respectable level and strenth (At least to 150 total stats between HP, Str and Def) is my top priority right now.
My pet is a Ruki, and atm his only fairy ability in use is burrow.
So far I find that defense works fairly well for me in 1 player battles. With the scorchstone, burrow, and excess health from faerie healing, I find myself having basically 3 extra moves in the beging on my battles before I go down to normal traditional fighting.
I havent actually hit the 20 mark for str and def, they are actually both at exactly 18 right now (But by today they will be so I didn't really feel like mentioning extra info), afterwards I plan on bringing my hp, str, and def all up to 35 (I believe the next mark) in that specific order.
So far I have been able to beat everyone challenge rating 63 and under (Minus just a very few that I have not found yet) in the battle dome (I was only able to do it up to 58 before I got the weapons upgrades from you guys

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Thanks again,
yasic